Make Your Marriage Sex
Passionate, Wild and Fun

Can marriage sex be erotic, exciting, loving and intimate?

Read on… making love to your husband or wife will never be the same again!

Guaranteed!

In the beginning, marriage sex was outrageous and passionate.

In those moments when you weren’t ripping each other’s clothes off, you replayed in your mind the sex of that morning, the sheer force of your orgasm, the words s/he spoke over lunch or in bed, and the subtle looks your lover passed your way.

You daydreamed about your lover’s naked body and the sex that you will have that evening. Your heart pumped faster, your breathing became shallow and you felt that pleasant warm tingle between your legs. In the beginning, sex took over your body and your mind.

But as time goes by, marriage sex changes. Your sex-intoxicated mind gradually sobers up and returns to work, responsibility and the other aspects of your marriage and life in general. And soon enough those last, hazy bits and pieces of your drunken-self straighten up and soon you realize that you know each other so well. You can predict his every move and he can predict yours.

Yawn. And then it’s time to relight the fire and bring passion and excitement back into your bedroom.

Oops! Did We Say Bedroom?

Be adventurous! The bedroom isn’t the only place where you can date your husband or wife.

One of the best ways to make routine marriage sex a little more wild and exciting is to change the atmosphere.

If you aren’t into having sex in the park or on the subway, there is an easy solution. Just by getting out of the bedroom, you add an element of excitement to marriage sex. Making love on the kitchen table or on the living room carpet is safe, clean, private, and oh so passionate.

As part of our research (professional and personal) into marriage sex, we read tons of books, e-books and special reports.

Here are our favorites. Our top 5 best lovemaking e-books – each guaranteed to improve tremendously your marriage sex:

The Art of Lovemaking – yes – this is absolutely the best.
It takes you through 52 weekly dates for fun, playfulness and… sex, of course. Lots of new ideas – that would make the both of you VERY HOT and … very giggly…
Check it out – it has 100% money-back-guarantee! so you have nothing to lose and a whole lot to gain.
100 Great Sex Games For Couples – bring back the fun and playfulness into the bedroom. A must have for any couple.
Killer Orgasms – the sales letter is a bit over-the-top, but the book contains valuable tips and tricks. We were surprised how much there’s more to learn, when you’re willing to experiment.
Recommended!
G-Spot Orgasm Technique – a whole book focused on getting a… g-spot orgasm… If you ever wondered where is this g-spot or how can you touch it the best to bring her to ecstasy – here is your answer.
Orgasmology – more than a book about giving her orgasm… also photos and videos. When you want to make your wife really happy – that’s for you. You can learn some great stuff without letting her know – and just suprise her… She’ll let you know that it worked…
Let’s Talk About Sex

Do you find it awkward, embarrassing or difficult to talk with your husband or wife about what feels good in sex, what feels great and what feels out of this world? Part of learning about the wonderful act of sex is finding out what feels best to you.

This requires that both of you take time and to touch and carress all parts of each other’s body while sharing with each other your experience. Your goal is to find what sensitive areas of your body help you enjoy sex the most.

Sexual fears, taboos and attitudes as well as withheld negative feelings and secrets choke off spontaneity, energy and pleasure in marriage sex. Sharing sexual fears and sex secrets as well as sexual peak experiences and sexual fantasies is a powerful way to deepen the intimacy in your relationship and boost the passion meter in your marriage.

We have created a special page for you where you can talk about sex – ask questions, share insecurities and fantasies, as well as help others with their questions, fears and secrets.
Check out our Let’s Talk About Marriage Sex Page…

And WITH your husband or wife – here is a simple, yet powerful, communication exercise that will free your sexual energy and promote trust and intimacy.

Break the Rules and Have Fun Doing It

Try a little spontaneity. Instead of making love only at night after the kids are in bed, seduce your husband or wife when the urge strikes. Flirt with your partner in public. Showing him/her that s/he is desirable will feed the flames and send you two running for the bedroom.

Put a sexy note (a description of your favorite fantasy) in your partner’s briefcase or car. Call your husband or wife at work during a lunch break (or send him/her an e-mail) and tell him/her exactly what you want to do to him/her after work – and DO it later.

Make love just before you are expecting company. The urgency of the sex and the forbidden secret will keep you hot for a week.

Food can lead up to lovemaking, but why not eat after sex? That way your stomach isn’t full, and you won’t fall asleep right after sex because you’ll both be hungry. Actually, you could also take a lovemaking break between the main course and dessert. There are things you can’t do in a restaurant…

And how about dance sexily for your husband…? These are excellent videos to teach you just that. Our recommended for the best marriage sex dancing is: “Lap Dancing & Entertaining Your Man, vol 4″

Masturbate in front of your lover without letting him/her touch you. Getting turned on together will raise desire to dizzying heights.

Variations on a Theme

Like ice cream, sexual pleasure comes in an amazing range of flavors – and everyone has a favorite. But your marriage sex suffers when you insist on always going back for more of the same.

Just varying your marriage sex routine in simple ways is enough to excite you and your partner into passionate lovemaking. Actually, simple variations on a familiar theme seem to be the simplest and most effective way to spice your marriage sex life.

Dressing yourself in seductive lingerie to look and feel sexy is a simple way to light a fire under your love life.
Check out this online shop for sexy lingerie – this is where we buy all our sexy stuff… They are really good!

Changing positions is another excellent way to increase your pleasure and to stir things up a bit. The Kama Sutra , or any other sex manual, can give you ideas for fresh new ways to get entangled with your lover.

Or, take a whole new approach to marriage sex. Learn more about Tantra – the art and magic of sexual ecstasy.

It’s Not the Destination That Counts

Give each other long, slow, and sensual massage. Explore every inch of your partner’s body with your fingertips. But refrain from having intercourse. Not confident about giving erotic massage? Learn everything you need to know to build a sexual tension that will wind you two up like steel springs for the next encounter…

Sharing fantasies with no obligation to act on them encourages creative erotic thinking, deepens understanding and intimacy, and helps you imagine each other in new sexual ways. The fantasy you develop together becomes your mutual mental foreplay for the next date. You’ll get in the mood much faster simply because you’ll have that hot fantasy ready to spark your libido.

For married couples in particular, sex without intercourse seems almost illegal, like the beginning of an affair. Learn more about making love (vs. having sex)…

Kinky Stuff

Kinkiness, ranging from slightly unusual to downright bizarre, is also one way to get your brain and genitals all fired up. Role playing, erotic talk, discussion of fantasy and striptease are sexy games that will transform any routine marriage sex into a hot, passionate love affair.

If you like the idea of these kinky games, but have never been a real dramatic type, you can ease into it by wearing sexy clothes/lingerie that you wouldn’t normally wear. Sexy music might also help you to let down your hair and get into the game. Try a red light bulb to add some exotica to your bedroom. And most importantly, laughing and joking about it will make it easier, without taking the sexy punch out of it. Teasing and playing is a great way to keep your marriage sex alive.

And Most Important…
Make Sex Your Priority

Make time for sex – busy as you may be, make lovemaking a top priority in your marriage.
Preferably, increase the frequency of your sexual encounters. Studies show that lovemaking elevates the levels of brain chemicals associated with desire. So the best way to increase your hunger for sex is to have sex…

Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex*

Our Marriage Sex Advice Column gives the answer to every sex question you ever wanted to know, and some you wouldn’t think to ask. Did you know, for example, that porno stars are not as gifted as they look? It’s the camera that adds a couple of inches to a normal penis. We’d love to tell you how to perform the “Piercing Tiger”, how 20 minutes of belly laughter enhances your ability to reach orgasm and will Viagra really improve your marriage sex…?

And Last But Not Least…

Don’t forget our ultimate solution: The Art of Lovemaking .
This e-book will definitely put the spark back in your marriage!
Save your marriage today with the Art of Lovemaking!

How to Fix a Failing Relationship – What You Ought to Know

By Gerry Restrivera

When the relationship is going through rough times, you might entertain the idea of quitting. But is quitting the solution to your relationship problems? Don’t you want to know how to fix a failing relationship and stay with your spouse or partner? Learning how to deal with problems in your relationship will make you grow as a person and you can strengthen the connection between you and your spouse or partner.

Here are some tips to help you fix a failing relationship:

Decide to stay in the relationship. The first thing you should do is to believe that the relationship is worth saving. You decided to stay with your spouse or partner and you are willing to fix a failing relationship. It is easier to save the relationship if you know what you want and you are convinced that things will get better.

Figure out what is wrong in your relationship. Are you fighting and arguing a lot? So what are the reasons behind those fights and arguments? Do you still have time to talk or go out on a date or you are both entangled with your work and busy raising your kids? If you need to list down the things that you fight about and look back to understand what is wrong with your relationship then do it. This is your life with your spouse or partner and it is not a waste of time to fix a failing relationship. Analyse and find out what are the things that might be damaging your relationship.

Communicate. After you have evaluated what is wrong in your relationship, it is now time to communicate with your spouse or partner to fix a failing relationship. Bear in mind that you want to fix a failing relationship so you need to be calm and diplomatic. If you are not yet ready, give yourself sometime to calm down to clear your mind and to be logical with what is going on. If your mind is clouded with anger, nothing positive will come out of the communication with your spouse or partner. Leave out insults, dirty arguments, blaming, accusing and anger because the person you want to talk to is the person you love and not an enemy. Communicate calmly and discuss about your feelings and be considerate of his or her feelings too. Communication is good not only when you have conflicts and you want to fix a failing relationship but regular communication is healthy in any relationship to make the connection stronger. It is best that you both schedule a weekly discussion over lunch, dinner or simple date to express each other’s feelings and make sure that all issues are resolved. Make communication and talking with each other a habit.

Compromise. There is a saying that “It takes two to tango.” In a relationship it is not only about you or about your spouse or partner only. This is about the two of you because you are both responsible for the success and failure of your relationship. If you want to fix a failing relationship, you have to know how to compromise. You and your spouse or partner must decide together about the things that matters to your relationship. Consult each other and compromise. If there are things not acceptable to you, meet in the middle, compromise and make things work out between you and your spouse or partner.

It is easier to learn how to fix a failing relationship than go through painful break up or divorce. Conflicts and arguments are normal occurrences in a relationship, the most important thing is that you know what to do to prevent break ups and save your relationship. If your relationship is still under pressure, things are not going well and the situation looks like hopeless, quitting is not the solution because there are still things you can do.

Do you want to find out a proven step-by-step strategy to fix a failing relationship even if your situation seems hopeless? To find out how visit Bring Back Lost Love

To know more about relationships visit All About Relationships

Problems with Your Husband? Do You Think Your Marriage is Damaged? Learn How to Fix Your Marriage and Repair Your Broken Relationship.

If you’re feeling so much distance in your relationship right now that you’re afraid you’ll never get back the love and closeness you felt at the start, I know how intense and frustrating that can be.

When my marriage was falling apart, I couldn’t even IMAGINE getting back the affection and attention my husband used to give me – but it happened for me, and it can happen for you, too.

Even if you’ve already tried everything you know and everything you’ve ever heard, just ONE (ANY one!) of the new Rori Raye Tools you’ll find in my new program “Reconnect Your Relationship” will help you tremendously.

You’ll see an INSTANT change in the way your man relates to you, and you’ll feel hopeful. You can heal your relationship – step-by-step.

In “Reconnect” I teach you EXACTLY how to talk to your man in ways that will ATTRACT him and inspire him to get close to you again, the way it felt at the beginning.

Have you ever felt – or are you feeling this now – like your relationship is just drifting away from you?

And your heart feels like it’s taken a direct hit?

Where you feel absolutely wounded?

And like you’ll never be the same again?

I remember feeling so NEGLECTED by my husband.

There was so much frustration and sadness in the space between him and me, on top of all the sleepless, miserable nights I spent alone – curled up on the rug, crying, or just walking the house while he slept.

What I wanted, what I NEEDED, was HEALING.

I needed someone to wave a magic wand over me and heal my relationship, and then heal my heart.

I tried therapists and healers of all kinds, and the hole in my heart just got deeper and deeper, and the distance between my husband and I just got bigger and bigger.

I KNEW that there was no one who could heal me but ME, but I kept looking for that magic wand. What I didn’t know then was that not only could I heal myself, and fast, but that I could heal my relationship, too.

I spent so much time trying to figure my husband out, and figure out why things were going wrong, and figuring out how to GET HIM TO DO what I wanted him to do and ACT how I wanted him to ACT.

But every time I opened my mouth, it was like he was telling me with the look on his face and the coldness of his body language that I’d once again “put my foot in it.”

Every time I tried to “talk” about what was going on with us, it backfired.

Things just got worse and worse, to where I was afraid to even speak.

And remember, I was a fairly successful person in every other part of my life – I was outgoing, smart, a working actress. I’d even learned how to put a business together on my own.

But here I was – afraid to SPEAK to my husband.

Mistakes In A Marriage
Having a marriage without problems is a virtual impossibility, but this doesn’t mean it has to have problems every time. You can fix your marriage.
If you do have problems, find out what causes it.
It may be possible that you have made some of these mistakes.

LEARN HERE TO FIX YOUR MARRIAGE

* A Lack Of Respect
Although we are who we are, don’t ever tell your partner or friends anything bad, we each must be respected.

* Not Listening
Pretending that you don’t hear when they speak. Or you ignore them by watching TV or playing on your Computer. Or you listen, but you constantly interrupt them or make your own decision without considering their input at all.

* Dull Sex Life

When they want to have sex, you reject them a lot. making up excuses. You know it will threaten your marriage.

* Not Always Feeling Right
You always see everything before it goes wrong, and you know what to do. Always blaming fault on them, rather than trying to work it out together.

* Making false Promises
You have promised things but keeping making the same mistakes again and again. Do what you say. Don’t give false promise.

* Not Being Sensitive
Saying things that touch her heart, in the wrong way. You must stop that. Respect her. Don’t belittle her.

* Being Dishonest
Don’t lie to your lover. Once, you lie, you will keep making bigger ones. Be careful, it will destroy the trust.

* Having Bad Habits
You have a bad habit, but you keep doing it.

* Having A Big Ego
Thinking of yourself first, and putting their needs second.

* Being Temperamental
The partner doesn’t finish to explain you interrupt angrily and blame you so much. Make a habit to relax and discuss everything in quiet and peace talk.

How to Find the Right Marriage Counselor
Discover why you need a marriage counselor and how to find the one for you

Marriage counseling can save your marriage even before it’s broken. During their first year of marriage, Sonja and Stephen Francis say that their relationship broke down. Conflict just kept continuing to escalate. Little squabbles would turn into blowouts. “We split up for a few minutes,” says Stephen. “Then, we decided to be on a mission to stay together.”
The first step? The couple decided to see their marriage counselor on a regular basis – through the good and bad times. Within a year, their marriage was back on track and people started asking them for their secret. That’s when the students became the teachers and launched Love Life Now, a company that puts on seminars in New York and one-on-one phone sessions for couples and those aspiring to be in couples.

As seminar leaders and coaches, they lead workshops to help people improve communication skills and self-management and learn how to appreciate their spouses and maintain a positive attitude, says Stephen. But they continue to see their marriage counselor and encourage others to do the same even if they are happy with their relationship. “Get medication before you’re covered in boils,” adds Stephen.

Here are Sonja and Stephen’s tips for finding the right marriage counselor and getting help to improve your marriage:

Try a few counselors.

Sonja and Stephen have a list of referrals on their Website. But you should consider everyone from a trusted clergyman to people, such as Stephen and Sonja, who have workshops and share their experiences one on one. Of course, trained and licensed counselors, therapists, and psychologists should be on your list as well. Feel free to go see more than one of these types of counselors, says Sonja. “Trust is the keyword here,” she adds. You need to find a person with whom both of you are comfortable and can be open about your feelings and any issues that you’re facing. Trying out different counselors is the best way to determine what will work for the two of you.

Avoid talking to your loved ones.

Family and friends are not the right marriage counselors for anyone. They can be bias in favor of one of you over the other. It can be embarrassing to talk to them about personal issues. You wouldn’t want your dirty laundry to be aired at Thanksgiving. It’s just best to leave your loved ones out of your love life.

Know what type of counselor you need. When you try out different counselors, you should be looking for someone who resonates with both of you and makes you feel comfortable, says Sonja. The counselor should help you communicate better and teach you how to notice and express how you feel at the moment, says Stephen. As a result of their counseling, Sonja and Stephen say that they fight in a more orderly manner – less often, better, and more efficiently. Most importantly, says Sonja, is that the person you choose to counsel you is interested in both of you as individuals but is invested in your relationship as a couple.

Think of yourself.

Thinking of yourself might sound crazy when you’re trying to improve your relationship with another person. But that’s exactly what you have to do as you look for a marriage counselor and start the necessary work. For starters, you have to determine your needs. “If you don’t know what you want, that can be damaging to your relationship,” says Sonja. You have to stay focused on yourself and the role you play in this partnership. “The only person you have any real say over is yourself,” says Stephen. Be reflective and introspective and determined to help your relationship. It will inspire your partner and make counseling more fulfilling and successful.

Stick with the counseling.

Even now that Sonja and Stephen are helping couples themselves and are happy and thriving as a couple, they continue to see their marriage counselor. They say it’s important to continuously tend to your marriage and that means working on your relationship even when things are going well. “Be process oriented, not result oriented,” says Stephen. “After the wedding, dedicate yourself to the process of being a lifelong learner.” Your work only just begins on your wedding day.

Marriage Counseling: Fix Your Marriage

Marriage Counseling: Fix Your Marriage

With the help of marriage counseling, you can ultimately improve your life. For some people, there isn’t a large problem that they are facing. It’s a number of small things that just build up and make life uncomfortable and complicated. For other people, there are large, drastic problems that often cause them to wonder if they even know the person that they are living with. No matter what side of the spectrum you are on, the ultimate benefit to you will be to find the help you need. With marriage counseling, you can do that.

Fix Your Marriage And Your Family

Sometimes, marriage counseling can do more than just help you to talk to each other better. It can even help your family to improve their communication abilities. For example, if you and your wife spend most of the time together fighting, then the children in your family are witnesses to this. Not only will they learn that this is the way that people talk but they are likely to display it in the way that they talk to others as well. For those that are dealing with complex problems, marriage counseling can help to put families back together.

But, what about your marriage; do you both enjoy spending time together or do you avoid having to be alone together? Do you go to bed frustrated, angry and even not speaking to each other? Or, have you become creatures of habit that don’t really talk to each other but instead just go through the motions of living together? Do you enjoy a healthy sexual relationship or do you wonder why your husband is no longer attracted to you? Any of these situations could be what you are facing. You could be facing something much more tragic or something much less troublesome. The fact is that any situation like this can be fixed or at least improved through marriage counseling.

Families and couples that use marriage counseling are capable of being together without fighting. They can solve problems together, not through fighting but through discussions. Most importantly, they value each others opinion and trust each other to make decisions that are beneficial to the entire family. You can improve and even fix your marriage successfully with dedication to marriage counseling.

Read more about Marriage Counseling:
Marriage Counseling: Are You Denying The Need? – May 27th, 2007
Marriage Counseling: Tips For Choosing A Therapist – May 25th, 2007
Marriage Counseling Or Divorce? – May 21st, 2007
Marriage Counseling Can Help Help You Through Difficult Times – May 14th, 2007
Marriage Counseling Can Work For You – May 11th, 2007
Marriage Counseling: What Are Sessions Like? – May 8th, 2007
Can You Benefit From Marriage Counseling? – May 5th, 2007
Where Can You Get Marriage Counseling? – May 4th, 2007
What Is Marriage Counseling? – May 2nd, 2007

How To Fix A Troubled Marriage.
by Cucan Pemo

Sometimes you can fix a troubled marriage and sometimes you are past no return. Before you allow your marriage to get past the point of new return, you need to reevaluate your marriage as well as your feelings. How troubled is your marriage? Do you feel like your marriage is just rocky or is it falling into the gutter? Even if your marriage is still just rocky, you need to take the time to help your troubled marriage. Those who are in a rocky marriage you will want to put a just a little bit more into the marriage.

First, you need to do things around the house that you would normally need to be asked to do. Make the bed, do the laundry, help out a little bit. In a rocky marriage, only stress is your issue. You need to make sure that you help your mate during the rough times and be more emotionally and physically supportive. You need to make her feel like she is needed, but not a slave. You also need to do things that make her feel attractive as well. You need to put forth some effort to make her feel wanted and beautiful. If you put more energy into your marriage, it won’t be rocky for long. If you fear that you have put off the marriage for awhile then you are probably in a failing marriage.

The reason why you are in a failing marriage is when things got rough you ignored the signs. You can’t ignore the signs of trouble in a marriage or you could end up in a very troubled spot. It can be difficult to fix a failing marriage. There will be resistance. You not only need to put more energy forth into the marriage, but you may need to take a step back from the relationship for you both to breath. When it comes to saving a marriage, you need to put some space between the two partners.

This doesn’t mean you have to move out, however, you need to back off with the romance and try to open up with each other. Talking can help resolve a lot of issues in a marriage; however, you have to talk openly to them. You have to learn how to listen and to send positive and clear messages.

Even though it can be hard to back off with wanting to be intimate, you will find that it will pay off in the end. You will be able to get to the wild bedroom behavior once you have been able to reconnect to your wife. Once you have reconnected to her, she’ll be more likely to want to be with you and more open to your intimate ideas and feelings. When you have a basis of trust and deep admiration you will find that the intimacy will be better than ever.

The key to saving a marriage is to get to the point where you both were happy. You need to make sure that you talk about the things that you are concerned with and the things that they are concerned with. You will want to make sure that you are open to your partner so that you can get to the core of your troubles. Once you have opened up to the communication channels, you can then open up about things like your sex. It’s all one-step at a time. Once you have a basis of understanding then you are able to build on that.

Once you have talked things through and have allowed a basis for a marriage, you can then start adding of your other concerns. Things like talking to your partner about the lack of excitement, the lack of pleasure, or even the lack of feeling wanted yourself. There are many men who think that their mate does not feel attracted to them, but there are a lot of women with the same insecurities.

As you grow and further your commitment to each other, you also need to keep the communication open so that you two can grow together. Once you have fixed your marriage, you constantly have to keep up with the marriage. You need to always be putting in effort to the relationship. You need to always be trying to keep interest in each other and keep the excitement in the relationship. When serious problems arise, you have to think about all the things that your mate must be feeling and allow her to have her feelings, but take a genuine step towards making that concern strength to your marriage. Remember, men and women see and think in a different light and if you are able to see the problem in both of our eyes, then your marriage will be saved.

If you are tired of relationship breakups, you’re about to change all THAT! My Breakthrough Resource will help you save your relationship or marriage the fast, easy way! You’ll join thousands of satisfied and happy couples who finally are able to make their relationship work, once and for all!

IF YOU WANT TO DISCOVER HOW TO FIX YOUR MARRIAGE AND HOW TO FIX YOUR LIFE, THE EASY WAY IS TO LEARN HOW TO FIX YOURSELF FIRST

If you are willing to take a good look at yourself and the dynamics creating your marriage problems then I can show you a significantly easier way to fix your marriage than the usual methods you have most likely tried already

Find out THE WHAT and THE WHY of the dynamics which create your marriage problems, as well as THE ‘HOW’ of removing the ’stuff’ that exists between you so that you can rebuild your marriage into a loving and supportive relationship.
I have laid it all out for you – the wisdom I discovered and used for myself, and the proven techniques which have helped thousands of people throughout the ages to fix their marriages and their lives.

My own marriage problems launched me on a quest to find out how to fix my marriage and my life. The hundreds of books I read gave me some clues, but there was much still unanswered. When the student was ready – the right teacher appeared for me and all the gaps were filled in. I had thought that fixing myself and my marriage would be / should be complex and hard. I found just the opposite.

Compared with the other ways I had tried, I found that by applying the wisdom I learned about myself and how to permanently fix my marriage problems was definitely doing it the EASY way

From the desk of Margaret Gopal
Tuesday, 10:28 a.m.
Dear Happiness Seeker,
You’re here because you are you are looking for answers and you want to find a way to fix your marriage problems. The fact that you have asked the question: ‘How Can I Fix My Marriage?’ – tells me that you are actually ready and willing to take action towards doing just that!

If you:

feel that finding happiness again is hopeless
are exasperated because you feel you have exhausted every avenue to fix your marriage
feel the complexities of trying to fix your marriage are so overwhelming that it seems impossible to find a way out
are feeling alone and isolated and just don’t know who to turn to for marriage help
have read heaps of self-help books but don’t know how to apply what you have read towards helping you to fix your marriage
are feeling resentful and even angry towards your wife or husband
feel the trust in your marriage is completely broken
have emotionally withdrawn from your husband or wife
In spite of how negative you might be feeling right now…

AND YOU ACTUALLY REALLY DO WANT TO TAKE ACTION TO FIX YOUR MARRIAGE – THEN READ ON!

“Have I always been as happy with my life and my relationship as I am today? NO!!

… and using the same wisdom that I have learned over many years, I can help you to FAST TRACK fixing your marriage problems so that you too can experience happiness you both deserve!”

Hi! My name is Margaret Gopal and I am NOT a Counsellor, I am NOT a Psychologist, I am NOT a Psychiatrist. Who I am is someone who’s literally been there and back in terms of marriage and relationship.

Over the years I have collected a whole kit bag of wisdom and easy techniques with which I have created massive change in my own life, as well teaching hundreds of other people just like you to find happiness. For me, the process of discovery was very costly – particularly financially. I have spent well in excess of $30,000 on books, workshops, and seeking guidance, let alone the amount of time I have invested.

It’s been worth it – not only because I found happiness for myself, but for the past 15 years I have been helping people from all walks of life achieve happiness too. The results people have had by using these simple techniques have been extraordinary, not just in fixing their marriages, but also in their lives as a whole.

The trigger for me was the failure of my 3rd marriage, and I woke one day with the question: What is it about me and about how life works that may be contributing to my relationship failures? Hence the quest for a solution began.

The rewards have been massive – I now have an unwavering happiness that bubbles constantly within me; I have a fun and loving marriage, and I help others achieve happiness in their relationships and their lives. Every day is a joy! I finally got it right! And I did it – not anyone else. And so can you.
The principles behind the wisdom I have gained have been in existence for thousands of years. There are NO SECRETS to acquiring this wisdom, it’s just that we are not taught how to find it and then how to implement it.

I want to share this wisdom with you so that you don’t have to spend years (like I have done!) looking for solutions to fix your marriage by going down umpteen blind alleys feeling like you are going nowhere.

I am living proof that the average person can overcome all of the “odds” and become undeniably happy.
I’m proud of my accomplishments — but I’m not telling you all of this to brag. I’m proud because it does require courage to take the first step, but having taken it, there’s no going back. The saddest thing we can do is to keep doing the same things and expect different results….I think they call that insanity.

“Here’s what some of people I’ve helped to fix their marriage have said…”

My Life Almost Stopped!
The layers slowly began to peel off, realisations about how I have carried frustrations and anger from one relationship into another arose; how I have independently created so many negative beliefs about myself that have ultimately made my life almost stop! With the amazing love and help of Margie, I have been guided into a new world of wholeness, peace with myself and those close to me and a clear set of goals for the future.

Robin Ryan, Courageous Wife & Mother, Australia
Alive Again!
What can I say? It is such an awesome journey. I love the simplicity and how profound it is. I feel the essence of what it is to be truly alive
Angelika Raya, Naturopath, Australia
You have Saved My Life..
I am so grateful for everything you have taught me. You have helped me turn my life around in a way I never thought was possible…and believe me, I was desperately unhappy before I learned the amazing skills you showed me. Where I was looking for complexity, I found simplicity. Thank you!
Georgie Fenton, Graphic Designer & Mother, Australia
I Feel Alive
This is the greatest gift I have ever given myself. And so easy! I feel ALIVE, AWAKE and AS ONE!
Brooke Sinclair, Victoria, Australia
SO HOW DID I GET TO ENJOY A LOVING MARRIAGE?

I was completely devastated after my 3rd marriage broke down, but as it turned out, that event was actually an incredible gift. Even though I felt lost and afraid, my need for answers about how life works outweighed those fears. After all – what would I find? Where to start? I had a knowing, deep inside me, that there was more to life than I had been experiencing – and I just had to find out if that feeling was true.

So my quest began, and bit by bit I was able to put the pieces of the life puzzle together. The discovery process took courage as I really had to face up to myself first. I had always thought that would be scary and I would find out the most terrible things about myself. WRONG!!! I found LOVE! And guess what – it wasn’t emotionally traumatic or complex!

Here’s the most important part – having understood the WHY, I then learned HOW TO FIX MY RELATIONSHIPS – the specific techniques that enabled me to achieve the most amazing inner happiness and how to share that with my husband.

Merely understanding anything is the booby prize. What good is understanding unless you can integrate that knowledge to create permanent change. Learning the HOW was the real prize of my journey and gave me all the answers I had been seeking.

The real magnitude of the gift unfolded over the next several years……………..

Where I had been looking for complexity, I found simplicity – the discovery was extraordinary!

You can uncover the gift in your marriage as well – discovering that gift is the easiest way to rebuild trust and intimacy in your marriage.

If I knew then, what I know now….well, who knows! But I know for sure that without this wisdom, I would not have the depth of happiness that I have in myself or my marriage that I have today.

Like me, perhaps you too are looking for answers..

I do know how frustrating and hard it can be when you are right in the middle of an unhappy relationship.

Perhaps you too have enlisted a variety of help to fix your marriage – but maybe the advice is only tackling the surface issues, and you are making little progress, if any.

Some of the questions I asked myself, and which you may also be asking include:

where do I start?
how do I know I can find the answers to my particular marriage problems?
can anyone really help me to fix my marriage – I know I’m not mad – I just need the right kind of help – but HOW DO I FIND WHAT THAT IS?
how do I trust my husband or wife again?
will I ever find happiness?
“With the techniques detailed in my eBook

HOW TO FIX YOUR MARRIAGE THE EASY WAY – A PATHWAY TO HAPPINESS, absolutely anyone can fix themselves and their marriage problems

I honestly wish that I had known this stuff when I was growing up, let alone during my marriages. Instead, I had to discover all this for myself – which at times felt like a very solitary journey.

If you really want to re-build your marriage and grow it into a fulfilling and happy experience for both of you, then the techniques I share in my eBook will help you.

The mystery behind why you married the person you did marry. Is it just co-incidence that the particular person you married arrived in your life? Or is it something more than that? Understanding this aspect alone will awaken you to the miracles and wonder of the lives we live.
Gain clarity into the reasons why the glow of the early days has disappeared. You are both still the same people aren’t you? Or are you? Learn how and why the foundation of your marriage has shifted over time – understanding this will give you a platform for moving forward together.
99% of people don’t understand that the games being played in relationships remain the same, it’s just that the disguises change. Find out what these disguises are, how to recognise them, and how to change them.
Discover the effect your Self Image has in your marriage. Do you try keep secret the negative ideas you have about yourself? Find out what happens when your secrets connect with the secrets of your wife / husband.
The Integration Exercises: Learn step-by-step techniques to help you change the negative dynamics that are causing your marriage to break down. You can use these techniques every day as situations arise in your marriage. So instead of reverting to the old games which you’ve already proven do NOT work, you will have a whole new bag of tricks that will easily help you resolve any problems quickly.
Uncover why your communication is breaking down. Find out how and why this happens and what to do about it.
Learn how to be supportive and more loving with each other while using these techniques
Learn the 10 Universal Truths which apply to any relationship.

Am I saying that if you follow these strategies I’m about to share with you, that all of your marital problems will be solved overnight? No, of course not. There is NO magic pill.

But what I am saying is that if the wisdom I share resonates with you AND you use the exercises I’ve prepared, then you will start to enjoy the benefits of doing this work within a relatively short period of time.

And that’s why I’ve decided to make these strategies available to you in my eBook “How to Fix Your Marriage The Easy Way – A Pathway to Happiness”.

I wish I knew how to make the words on this page leap over to you so that you could get a sense of the passion behind the words, and to feel the potential that lies in wait for you when you purchase my eBook.

You don’t need to know anything about anything
The techniques can work for everyone
You can implement them immediately
And better still, one of the most important reasons people are in love with this approach is because their lives really do change.

How To Rebuild Your Marriage
By Kaye Siders

Trust is perhaps one of the most important elements of a marriage. What happens when that trust is broken by one or even both of the people in a marriage? A marriage may implode, and unfortunately, may end up in divorce. Other times, a trust may not be broken, but a couple has grown apart over the years. How can you get past the issues that caused the pain or the distancing in the first place? Regardless of your particular circumstances, this list of suggestions can help you to rebuild and repair your marriage.

Forgive. In order to rebuild your marriage, you must forgive your spouse for whatever it is that happened. It doesn’t mean you have to forget what he or she did, but you honestly and wholeheartedly need to forgive. If you can’t forgive your spouse for what you believe he or she did or said, then you need to ask yourself why. What is it that is stopping you from forgiving him? If you feel you can’t forgive him, it is unlikely you will regain that trust that is so important for a successful relationship.
Stop the behavior. Let’s be frank. If you are trying to rebuild your marriage due to a trust issue, then the person who broke the trust in the relationship needs to stop whatever he or she was doing that broke that trust to begin with. After all, how can a marriage be rebuilt if the issue that was causing the problem still exists in the marriage? It needs to stop in order to rebuild.
Communication is key. To rebuild a marriage, you must communicate! Talk openly to your spouse and tell him or her your feelings. Don’t keep how you feel inside or bottle up your feelings. Identify what the problem is and talk about it. Your spouse should show a sincere interest in rebuilding the relationship and should take into account everything you feel and think.
The best way to learn to communicate with your spouse while rebuilding your marriage is to seek counseling. Never be ashamed to seek help when rebuilding your marriage. A counselor can help you both to validate your feelings and learn the best way to talk to each other. Believe it or not, there are some techniques–that apply especially well under stressful circumstances–to enable you to keep a dialogue going. A marriage counselor may also be able to offer you input on what is missing in your marriage and give you tips on how to rebuild intimacy and trust again.
Spend time together. Regardless of why you have the need to rebuild your marriage, a great way to do it is to spend time together. To begin with, try implementing a date night once a week. If once a week is not possible, then work hard to make it happen bimonthly. Talk to your spouse, think back to when you were first dating, try to remember the things you once loved to do together. Take those ideas and use them for your date nights. Go to places you have never gone or places that you once enjoyed before other things got in the way. Bring back that old feeling you once had for each other. Hold hands, run in the rain, stay up late at night talking, do whatever you used to do that at one time left butterflies in your stomach. Date nights and time together are wonderful ways to help repair a broken marriage.
And if romance is out of the question for you at this point, then find activities that you can both enjoy without running head on into your issues. The idea here is to spend some time together that is non-confrontational and maybe even fun. This means that if there was an infidelity, whatever you do, don’t go see a movie that includes an infidelity. You need to build on what is still good and uncomplicated between you. If that means that all you can do is thumb through a design magazine together, so be it. Find ways to spend time together and enjoy it, whatever that means to you.

Give it time. Regardless of what has happened in your marriage that has caused it to need to be rebuilt, it is important to know that the rebuilding of a marriage takes time. Please don’t expect it to happen overnight, or even in a month. It may take a year or even longer to rebuild your marriage. If you truly are committed to rebuilding your marriage, keep this in mind. Don’t give up if it seems to be taking longer than anticipated. Rome wasn’t built in a day–your marriage can’t be rebuilt in one either. It is going to take some time!
Don’t compare yourselves to the Joneses. You know the ones–the beautiful people with the two children, the Volvo station wagon and the newly remodeled house, who still seem to find time to romance one another. Remember that every couple has its issues. Never compare your situation to anyone else’s, in your own head and certainly not out loud to your spouse. You have stumbled across your particular issues for a reason–because you need to work through them–so don’t romanticize other people’s circumstances. You really have no idea what goes on at the Joneses. Focus on your own situation, one day at a time.
Although this work is certainly not easy, it will prove to be worth it in the end. You will either rebuild your marriage or learn why it cannot be rebuilt, and you will learn an enormous amount about yourself and your spouse in the process. Should you be able to rebuild your marriage, you will have become closer with your spouse, with improved communication skills and intimacy, and your marriage will reap the benefits of all of your hard work.