Archive for June, 2011

How Couples Counseling Eliminates Sides

Thursday, June 30th, 2011

How Couples Counseling Eliminates Sides

Audrey and Franklin had some concerns when they decided to see a couples counselor that would help with their marital problems. Both were at an extremely polarized point with one another, using friends and family members as allies to join in on their argument. Of course, this only exacerbated the problem. Both Audrey and Franklin [...]

The Importance of Physical Touch

Thursday, June 30th, 2011

The Importance of Physical Touch

People tend to recognize the importance of physical touch when it comes to babies and children. Infants are held much of the time. Many cultures place babies in a sling so they can be held close to their parent all the time. Children are given hugs and kisses regularly. However, many people underestimate the importance [...]

Validating Your Partner’s Feelings

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Validating Your Partner’s Feelings

Validating your partner’s feelings can be very helpful to the relationship. Learning how to acknowledge the other person’s feelings can diffuse a lot of arguments and help the other person feel heard. It can show that you have empathy for his/her feelings even when you disagree on something. Simply stating that you recognize your partner’s [...]

Dealing With Your Spouse’s Ex

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Dealing With Your Spouse’s Ex

If your spouse was married previously and had children, chances are, you have to deal with their ex. Although some families manage this well and make it look easy, this can be difficult for the majority of families. Step-parenting is a difficult task by nature. Throw in a difficult ex-spouse, and it can create some [...]

Spending Time with Friends

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

Spending Time with Friends

Spending time away from your spouse and visiting with friends and family can actually improve your relationship. Your spouse is not going to meet all of your needs all the time. It is important to try and get your needs met in other ways instead of depending on your partner, and then feeling disappointed in [...]

How Do Stereotypes Impact Your Marriage?

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

How Do Stereotypes Impact Your Marriage?

It’s important to identify what sorts of stereotypes impact your beliefs about the man’s role and the woman’s role within the marriage. People develop beliefs about roles within the marriage based on what sorts of relationships they witnessed within their own family. Stereotypes also develop based on media images. Children look to their parent’s relationship [...]

Technology and Cheating

Monday, June 27th, 2011

Technology and Cheating

Most couples never sit down and discuss what specifically constitutes cheating within their relationship. However, different couples consider different things to be an act of infidelity. It’s important to recognize what you would consider to be unacceptable behaviors. In an age of increased technology, there are many more opportunities for couples to engage in secret [...]

How to Respond When Your Partner Uses Unfair Fighting Tactics

Monday, June 27th, 2011

How to Respond When Your Partner Uses Unfair Fighting Tactics

There may be times that you find yourself having a conflict with your partner and he uses some “dirty tricks” instead of fighting fair. Perhaps he isn’t willing to work on solving the issue or maybe he’s behaving in a way that is unacceptable. Maybe you are trying to remain calm and use the skills [...]

Asking For Help In A Marriage

Sunday, June 26th, 2011

Asking For Help In A Marriage

Some people have difficulty directly getting their needs met. This can lead to complaining, criticizing, and indirect communication that does not yield results. Learning how to ask for help can be very helpful to both partners in the marriage. Complaining about things without directly asking for help is not likely to be helpful. For example, [...]

Quality Conversations

Sunday, June 26th, 2011

Quality Conversations

When people are dating, they tend to talk a lot about themselves, their goals, their history, and their feelings. However, for many couples, years of marriage can cause communication to become more like a business deal. Conversations may become centered around schedules, household responsibilities, and financial decisions. Lack of quality conversation can have a negative [...]

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