1- Send her ~ daisies, amarryllis, gardenias, bird of paradise, mums, carnations, hyacinths, kangaroo paw, lilacs or just some pretty colorful flowers from your neighbors yard (with their permission of course). For an extra special touch send these flowers to her job. You or a friend can deliver them to the lobby of her job.

You do not have to send her a dozen roses or a dozen of any type of flower. If you use a florist have them deliver one or two flowers or a small plant with a large bow wraped around it. Add a special note, eg, “Just thinking of you”, Love your husband. Or you can sign it from “A Secret Admirer”.

2- Listen ~ It is so annoying when you speak to someone and they pretend to listen to you. Sure they hear words coming from your mouth, but immeadiatly ask them what did you say and many times they can’t tell you.

It is even more annoying when the person you’re talking to is your husband and he’s looking right at you and he cannot properly acknowledge what you have said with a decent answer or comment because he just wasn’t really listening. Really listening to each other will make your happiness level even higher. This is such an easy way to keep your wife happy.

3- Surprise ~ her with her favorite chocolate or candy bar under her pillow. Do you know what her favorite candy is? Well it’s pretty easy to find out. Just observe what candy she’s always snacking on. If she doesn’t have a favorite, any candy will do. It’s the thought that counts.

4- Love Letter ~ This may sound a little corny but a woman loves a love letter or just a short love note. Mail it to her at your home address or to her job. This surprise in the mail will have her sealing your lips with a kiss . If you don’t know what to write, here is an old favorite rhyme you probably used when you were a child: Roses are red…Violets are blue…I am so in love with you.

The words are simple yet true and the rhyming gives this short phrase a nice effect.

5- Tell her she looks beautiful ~ especially when she doesn’t have on any makeup or if she’s expressed to you that she doesn’t look pretty. It’s not that you are telling her something that isn’t true, she’s your wife, you want to keep her happy, you love her and in your eyes she should always be beautiful no matter how she looks. Every woman needs a little ego boosting sometimes.

6- Shrimp Fried Rice ~ Broccoli, Orange Chicken, and 2 Fortune Cookies Anyone? Do this at least once or twice a month. If you can’t cook, no problem, pick up a meal from her favorite take out resturant. (The food listed above is served on almost every Chinese resturant take out menu). Pick up some red wine or mineral water.

Put a tablecloth on the table. Make a centerpiece by putting 1 flower in the center of the table in a vase or just lay it on the table. Use 1or 2 candles on candle holders, or just use your imagination. (Cost of tablecloth, flower, candles and candle holders $1.00 each at any Dollar store). Serve the food on your good china dishes or at least make sure you don’t serve it on paper plates.(Unless your newlyweds and paper plates are all you have right now).

After you finish your meal break open your fortune cookies and have fun reading the fortunes found inside. Discuss the fortunes given and the lucky numbers usually found on the back of most fortune strips. Enjoy the conversation and enjoy each other.

When you both are finish eating, clean off the dinner table and wash all the dishes. She’ll be so happy that you planned, prepared and cleaned up after such a great time together. And you’ll be pleased to know that keeping your wife happy can be fun and entertaining.

7- A Puppy ~ kitten, hamster, bird, turtle, fish, a teddy bear, or UglyDoll, whether stuffed or real, pets can be such a happy addition to the family. Whether you choose to buy her a stuffed animal or a real one take in consideration the size of the animal you select. Does your house have room for a super large animal or would a medium or small one be more suitable?

8- Plant A Tree Together ~ This will show strength and longevity that you want in your relationship. Visit a nursery and find a variety of choices. Google the words trees and shrubs for some excellant ideas. You’ll want to pick out the tree together and decide where you want to plant it.

Also work on your lawn together to make the landscape a beautiful flowery and green oasis. Since this is a project the both of you will be working on, not having to remind you to cut the grass and take care of the yard will keep your wife happy.

9- Check your Honey Do list ~ Is she still asking you to fix a leaky faucet, fix a running toilet, paint the bathroom? Well don’t ask her if she still wants you to fix this or do that, just go ahead and do it. From now on when she asks you the first time, do the chore as quickly as possible. How quick is quick? If you can do it immeadiately that’s excellant. If you can do it in one or two days that’s fine.

If the task takes a little longer to complete because you have to buy materials etc., then be sure to complete the request in no more than 2 weeks. If money is an option and you must wait for a pay check then by all means let her know you will handle the problem when you get paid. And when you get paid start and complete the task and check it off of your Honey Do List.

10- Ask her out ~ Call her on her cell and ask her out on a date. You both had plenty of dates and fun times before you got married. Rekindle that passion and make it a point to always have a date night. Schedule this time together as you would any regular appointment.

Visit some of the fun places you use to go to. Things change so fast. If any of those places are no longer there or if they are located in another city or country and it’s impossible to visit that’s ok. There are lots of other possibilities. Make some new, exciting, fun and romantic memories.

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